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01Trace Your Fantasies

Your brain holds the dirty little secrets that tell you what you want. Think about the last time you got ridiculously horny during the middle of a random day. What were you picturing in your head right before you touched yourself. That fantasy is your roadmap to pure bliss. For more, read Give Feedback in Bed That Won't Hurt.

02Scan Your Body

1. 1

   Get naked

   Strip off all your clothes and lie down on your clean bed.

2. 2

   Close eyes

   Breathe in slow and turn off the racing thoughts in your mind.

3. 3

   Touch slow

   Run your warm fingers over your chest and belly and thighs.

4. 4

   Note spots

   Pay attention to which exact areas make your breath hitch.

You ignore your own skin way too much during the daily rush. Slow down and let your hands teach you what feels good. Your body keeps the score on every touch that makes you shiver.

03Stop Faking It

• Stop making noises that sound like you are having fun when you are actually bored.
• Tell him to slow down or speed up based on what your clit is screaming for right now.
• Kick him out of the driver seat and take control of the friction until you come.

Pleasing your man is great until you realize he finishes every time while you are left high and dry. You need to demand what your body craves. Speak up in bed and watch how fast he learns to worship your wet spots.

04Test New Tastes

You will never know if you like anal or bondage until you try it with safe boundaries. Buy some cheap rope or warm lube and test the waters. Your desires might surprise you once you let go of shame.

05Claim Your Orgasm

1. 1

   Get wet

   Use plenty of good lube so nothing feels dry or painful.

2. 2

   Mount up

   Climb on top of him so you control the exact angle of friction.

3. 3

   Grind hard

   Press your pubic bone straight against his hard dick and rock.

4. 4

   Let go

   Stop thinking about how you look and just focus on the heat.

You deserve to come hard every single time you have sex. Take your pleasure seriously and watch your libido explode. Your body is ready for the ride.

Where to go next

• How To Give Good Feedback In Bed
• Fix Stress And Crave Him Again
• Bring the Lust Back After Years