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Going Down on Him

A great blow job isn't about going as deep as you can. It's about teasing him until he's desperate, then using your mouth and your hand together so he feels everything at once. Do that and he'll be thinking about it for days.

How hard is it
Easy to learn
Best for
Driving him wild
Who is in charge
You are
Even better with
Eye contact

01What makes a blow job great

Three things. You look like you want to be there, you use your hand as well as your mouth, and you keep a steady rhythm once he's close. Fancy tricks matter far less than those.

The most sensitive part of him is the head and the small ridge just underneath it. Spend your time there.

02How to give a blow job, start to finish

  1. 1

    Tease first

    Kiss his stomach and inner thighs. Lick him slowly from base to tip before you take him in your mouth.

  2. 2

    Get him wet

    Use plenty of spit. Wet feels better and lets your hand slide.

  3. 3

    Add your hand

    Wrap your hand around the base and move it together with your mouth, like one long stroke.

  4. 4

    Build a rhythm

    Speed up little by little. When he says he's close, don't change anything.

03Moves that make his legs shake

  • The swirl

    Circle your tongue around the head while he's in your mouth.

  • The twist

    Twist your hand gently as it moves up and down the shaft.

  • The look

    Look up at him. Eye contact at the right moment undoes most men.

04Extra ways to drive him crazy

  • Cup and gently stroke his balls with your free hand.
  • Moan a little. He'll feel the vibration.
  • Stop, kiss his thighs, and make him ask for more. Edging makes his finish much stronger.
  • Tell him how good he tastes. A little dirty talk goes a long way.

05Finishing and staying safe

Ask where he wants to finish, or decide for yourself and tell him. Swallowing, using your hand at the end or finishing on your chest are all fine. What you do with your mouth is always your call.

Oral sex can pass on infections. With a new partner, a condom and regular testing keep things worry free.

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