Missionary gets called boring by people who've never done it properly. Face to face, his weight on you, your legs around him and nowhere to look but each other. Change three small things and it becomes one of the deepest, dirtiest positions there is.
- How hard is it
- Very easy
- Best for
- Kissing and depth
- Who is in charge
- He is
- Even better with
- A pillow
01Why missionary still works
You can kiss, bite a shoulder, whisper in an ear and watch each other's faces the whole time. He can go slow and deep or fast and hard, and you can pull him in with your legs whenever you want more.
It's also the easiest position to change. Lift your hips, move your legs or shift his body up an inch and the whole feeling changes.
02How to do missionary the right way
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1
Lie back and open up
Lie on your back with your knees bent and your feet flat. Put a pillow under your hips to tilt your pelvis up.
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2
Let him settle in
He lies between your thighs and holds his weight on his forearms so you can still breathe and move.
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3
Wrap your legs
Hook your legs around his waist or the back of his thighs. The higher your legs, the deeper he goes.
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4
Move together
Don't lie still. Rock your hips up to meet every thrust and tell him when he hits the right spot.
03Three missionary variations to try
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Pillow lift
A firm pillow under your hips points him straight at your G spot. One small change, huge difference.
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Legs on his shoulders
Rest your calves on his shoulders for the deepest angle. Go slowly at first.
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The grind
He slides his body up so the base of him rubs your clit, then rocks instead of thrusting.
04How to make missionary hotter
- Pin her wrists gently above her head and kiss her neck.
- Keep your eyes open and hold eye contact right as you both get close.
- Reach down and rub her clit, or let her use a small vibrator.
- Say what you feel. A few filthy words in her ear go a long way.
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