Prioritize Her Pleasure For Equal Orgasm Fun

01Flip the script

Most hetero sex follows a tired script where foreplay is just a quick warm up act before the main event. He gets hard, he enters her, and they both race toward his climax while she gets left behind. You need to toss that script straight into the trash right now. Real intimacy means making her pleasure the main priority of the entire session. For more, read Supercharge Solo Sessions For Epic Climaxes.

1. 1

   Drop the clothes

   Get naked together without rushing straight into any missionary positioning.

2. 2

   Focus on her

   Keep all the early attention entirely on her clitoris and her wetness.

3. 3

   Use your hands

   Bring her to the brink of a massive orgasm before he even gets inside.

4. 4

   Seal the deal

   Ride him while she is still buzzing from her first incredible climax.

02Use your mouth

Oral sex is your secret weapon for closing the orgasm gap permanently. When he goes down on her with enthusiasm and skill, the playing field levels instantly. Do not treat oral sex as a mere favor you trade back and forth like chores. Treat it like the high art form it truly is.

03Get selfish in bed

• Stop pretending that penetration alone is enough to get you off because stats show most women need direct clitoral friction.
• Demand that he keeps going even if his arms get tired or his jaw starts to cramp up from eating you out.
• Take control of his hands and put them right where you want them so he stops guessing and starts pleasing.

There is zero shame in demanding what feels good. Your body belongs to you and your pleasure is just as important as his.

04Timing is everything

If he comes in three minutes flat, your chances of climaxing drop close to zero unless you change the timeline. Reverse the order of operations so she crosses the finish line early. Once you have already come once or twice, you can relax and enjoy the rest of the ride without any performance anxiety.

1. 1

   Start slow

   Spend ten solid minutes on touching and kissing.

2. 2

   Bring her home

   Make sure she has at least one big orgasm first.

3. 3

   Switch roles

   Let him slide inside you while you ride the afterglow.

4. 4

   Finish together

   Keep the friction going until he shoots his load inside.

05Keep talking dirty

Communication in the bedroom is the only way to ensure nobody gets left unsatisfied. Tell him exactly what feels incredible and what needs to stop right now. Dirty talk fuels the fire and keeps both of you locked into the exact same frantic rhythm.

Where to go next

• Supercharge Your Solo Climaxes
• Better Solo Play With Sex Toys
• Make Sure She Comes Every Time