Better Solo Play With Sex Toys

01Choosing Your Weapon

Walking down the toy aisle or scrolling online can feel like looking at a spaceship dashboard. You want something that hits your clit just right without numbing you out in thirty seconds. Look for body safe silicone that feels warm against your skin instead of cheap hard plastic that feels like a kitchen appliance. Waterproof options mean you can take the fun into the shower when you want to mix things up. For more, read Master The Point Of No Return In Bed.

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   Check material

   Always buy medical grade silicone so your skin stays safe and happy.

2. 2

   Pick power

   Choose a motor with multiple speeds so you can start slow and build.

3. 3

   Think shape

   Find a head size that matches your anatomy and sensitivity level.

4. 4

   Read reviews

   Look for comments about motor noise so your roommates stay clueless.

02Lube Is Non Negotiable

Dry friction ruins even the most expensive toy on the market. Slathering on a generous amount of water based lube changes everything by making every vibration feel ten times more intense. Silicone lube ruins silicone toys by melting the surface so stick to water or hybrid formulas. Do not be shy with it because you can always add more when things really heat up.

• Water based lube washes off easily and saves your favorite toys from permanent damage.
• Putting lube directly on the toy and your clit prevents any stinging friction.
• Warming formulas add an extra layer of sensation that makes you shiver.

03Warming Up Your Body

Jumping straight to the highest vibration setting is a fast track to feeling overstimulated and sore. You need to tease your nervous system by touching your breasts and thighs before the toy even gets close to your pussy. Slow build ups make the final climax hit your brain like a lightning bolt.

04Finding The Sweet Spot

Your clitoris is an iceberg because the visible part is just a tiny fraction of a massive network of nerve endings. Pressing the flat side of a wand toy against your mound gives you deep rumbling sensations instead of direct pinprick stinging. Move the toy in tiny circles and watch how fast your breath hitches in your throat.

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   Start outside

   Rest the toy on your outer labia until you get soaking wet.

2. 2

   Move inward

   Glide the tip slowly toward your clitoris without pressing down hard.

3. 3

   Change angles

   Tilt the toy sideways to cover more surface area at once.

4. 4

   Hold steady

   Keep the toy in one spot once you find a rhythm that makes you moan.

05Aftercare And Cleaning

When you finally come down from your high your body is going to feel sensitive and relaxed. Take a moment to wash your toy immediately with warm water and antibacterial soap so it stays hygienic for next time. Wrap yourself in a soft blanket and let the endorphins wash over you as you drift off to sleep.

Where to go next

• Master The Point Of No Return In Bed
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