Fix The Orgasm Gap And Make Her Finish

01Ditch The Script

Penetration alone rarely does the trick. Most women need direct clitoral friction to push them over the edge. If he thinks a few minutes of standard in and out sex will make you cum, he needs a wake up call. For more, read Conquer Clitoral Anorgasmia With Loving Patience.

1. 1

   Stop Pushing

   Stop pretending that regular intercourse is enough to get you off.

2. 2

   Speak Up

   Tell him exactly what your clitoris wants right before things heat up.

3. 3

   Use Hands

   Keep fingers working the magic while he is inside you.

4. 4

   Change Angles

   Switch to positions that grind your pubic bone against his base.

02Get Selfish In Bed

Nice girls finish last because they care too much about his ego. Throw that politeness out the window and demand what you want. You are not asking for a favor when you ask him to lick you until you shake.

• Make him focus on your pleasure before his trousers even come off.
• Refuse to let him roll over and go to sleep until you have come at least once.
• Take control of the vibe and ride him until you shatter.
• Use toys to bridge the gap when his hands get tired.

03Warm Up The Engine

Foreplay is not a prelude to the main event because foreplay is the main event. Give your body time to get swollen and dripping wet. A turned on woman comes much faster and hits peaks that feel like lightning.

04Grind With Intention

Missionary can feel incredible if you tilt your pelvis up to meet him. Stop bouncing up and down and start sliding against him with friction. That constant rubbing against your sensitive spots changes everything.

1. 1

   Tilt Pelvis

   Angle your hips upward to smash your clitoris against his pelvis.

2. 2

   Slow Down

   Drop the frantic pace and move in slow grinding circles.

3. 3

   Press Close

   Pull his hips flush against yours so there is zero empty space.

4. 4

   Arch Back

   Arch your spine to give him deeper access from the front.

05Speak Your Dirty Truth

Silence kills orgasms faster than bad breath. Tell him you are close or moan louder when he hits the right spot. He wants to know he is winning and your vocal feedback gives him the cheat code to your body.

• Whisper dirty instructions right into his ear while he strokes you.
• Tell him he is doing a good job when he hits the right rhythm.
• Do not be afraid to grab his hair and direct him exactly where you need him.

Where to go next

• Conquer Clitoral Anorgasmia
• Make Her Cum With The Come Hither Finger
• Make Sure She Comes Every Time