Drop Your Octave

01Breathe Low

Most women talk from their throat when they get nervous. That makes your pitch high and tight. To sound like you want to fuck him right now you have to drop your breath straight down into your belly. Put your hand on your stomach and take a deep breath. Feel your hand move out. When you speak from your core your tone gets thick and warm. For more, read How to Whisper Dirty Talk in Public.

02Use Vocal Fry

1. 1

   Relax throat

   Let your vocal cords go completely slack.

2. 2

   Lower pitch

   Push air out slowly on a low note.

3. 3

   Add rattle

   Let your voice crackle slightly at the end.

4. 4

   Whisper close

   Put your lips right against his skin.

Vocal fry is that lazy sexy rattle at the bottom of your register. Think of how you sound first thing in the morning when you wake up naked next to him. That natural gravel is pure porn to a man.

03Slow It Down

When you rush your dirty talk he loses half the impact. Drag your words out like you are too lazy or too horny to speak fast. Every syllable should feel heavy and deliberate. Let the silence between your dirty words build the tension until he begs you to touch him.

• Speak half as fast as you normally do during the day.
• Pause right before the dirtiest word in your sentence.
• Let your breath catch between phrases to show you want him.
• Keep your mouth wet and close to his ear.

04Find Your Power

A lower voice changes how you feel inside your own skin. You stop worrying about sounding silly and start feeling in control. When you tell him to get on his knees with a thick throaty growl he will obey instantly. Power sounds heavy and dark.

05Practice In Bed

Next time you two are kissing in the dark try dropping your volume to a whisper. Let the air rattle in your throat and tell him exactly what you want him to do to you. Watch his eyes dilate the moment your voice hits him.

Where to go next

• Whisper Dirty Talk in Public
• Practice Dirty Talk Alone in the Mirror
• Filthy Lines for First Timers