You pick up your phone to send a hot message and your mind completely blanks out. You end up typing something lame and completely kill the mood before your clothes even come off.
- Mood killer
- Kinks blocked
- Best fix
- Be specific
- Time to read
- Four minutes
- Audience
- Horny adults
01The Dry Hey Problem
Sending a lazy greeting is the fastest way to get left on read. When you drop a single word into his inbox with zero context, you force him to do all the heavy lifting. He has no idea what you want or if you are even in the mood. For more, read Strangers in a Bar Roleplay for Couples.
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Drop the greeting
Skip hello and start directly with an action.
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Paint a picture
Tell him exactly where your hands are right now.
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Keep it moving
Ask a direct question to demand an instant reply.
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Match his energy
Scale your filth to match how fast he responds.
02Asking Too Many Questions
Interrogating your partner turns foreplay into a job interview. Nobody wants to answer a list of random questions when they are trying to get hard or wet. You need to make statements that demand a reaction instead of asking permission.
03Typos And Bad Grammar
Autocorrect ruins more orgasms than bad breath. When you send a garbled mess of letters, the sexy tension vanishes while he tries to decode your typo. Take three extra seconds to read your dirty words before you hit send.
- Check your spelling so your filthy fantasy stays crystal clear.
- Turn off annoying autocorrect features if they ruin your flow.
- Use punctuation to control the exact pacing of your dirty talk.
04Being Too Vague
Saying things like I want you is weak and boring. He hears that phrase all the time and it stops registering as anything special. You have to get graphic and name the exact body parts you want to use on him tonight.
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Name the parts
Talk about specific inches and wet spots.
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Set the scene
Describe the exact room and furniture you want to use.
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Add pressure
Tell him how fast he needs to get home to you.
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Demand proof
Ask for a photo of his hard cock immediately.
05Ignoring His Responses
Sexting is a tennis match and you cannot just drop the ball. If he sends you a detailed description of what he wants to do to your body, do not respond with a laughing emoji. Match his filthy momentum and keep the heat rising.
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