You are staring at a blinking cursor while your mind goes blank. The same old tired messages will not cut it when you want his heart racing during a boring Tuesday at the office.
- Time it takes
- Two minutes
- Best for
- Busy couples
- Heat level
- Very high
- Skill level
- Beginner friendly
01Upgrade The Basics
Every basic text needs a dirty upgrade to make him drop his coffee. You want to skip the boring greetings and dive straight into the physical reality of your body. Tell him exactly where your hands are resting right now. Make him picture the exact fabric against your skin and what is happening underneath. For more, read Morning After Sexts That Linger All Day.
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Drop the intro
Skip hello and start with a physical action.
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Add texture
Mention silk or lace touching your skin.
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Use commands
Tell him what to imagine you doing.
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Leave gaps
Stop typing before you finish the thought.
02The Classic Prompt Reborn
That old question about what you are wearing is tired and dry. Turn it around by telling him what you wish he was taking off your body with his teeth. Specific details work best because his brain fills in the rest of the filthy picture.
- Describe the exact snap of your bra strap.
- Tell him your panties are soaked and waiting.
- Mention the heat between your thighs right now.
03Paint A Picture
Visuals drive him crazy when he is stuck away from home. Describe a scene where you are touching yourself while thinking about his hands. Paint the picture so clearly he can smell your perfume through the screen.
04Demand His Reaction
Do not just send a dirty picture and walk away. Demand to know what he is doing about it right this second. Force him to confess the mess he is making in his trousers.
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Ask for proof
Tell him to send a photo of his bulge.
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Set a timer
Give him one minute to reply.
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Call him out
Tell him he is addicted to your voice.
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Tease the reward
Promise to reward him later tonight.
05Keep It Consentual
Hot sexting always relies on knowing both of you are into the game. Check in with a quick question if you are trying something new with your partner. Mutual enthusiasm makes every dirty message hit ten times harder.
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